O Câncer de Mama muito além dos índices

CANCER DE MAMA

Outubro Rosa! Para todo lado que se olha a fitinha cor de rosa está lá para nos lembrar que somos mulheres e precisamos de cuidado. É, às vezes a gente quase se esquece no meio de tudo que eu vivo aqui e provavelmente você também viver por aí.  De uma semana pra cá perdi a conta de quantas fitinhas eu vi por aí e algumas bem que me chamaram a atenção, como a fitinha na gola do terno de um vereador na Câmara Municipal de Uberlândia e uma fitona gigante na fachada de uma empresa, no bairro Martins.  Sábado tem a 6ª Caminhada Contra o câncer no Parque do Sabiá,  das 8h às 11h. São mobilizações para nos lembrar que não somos “mulher maravilha” 100% do tempo, talvez só 99% e nesse 1% a doença encontra uma brecha.

A verdade é que existem índices assustadores, e eu posso procurar, divulgar… Mas pra essa mulher aqui, nada serve mais de alerta que aquela sensação de “posso perder o que é meu e é tão feminino”.

Quando eu era criança, eu não lembro quantas vezes viajamos para Araraquara para minha mãe tirar caroço no seio. Pra mim parecia tudo normal. Ela fazia o auto exame, achava e procurava o médico. Sempre benigno. E naquela época, câncer era palavrão. Talvez ainda seja, quantas pessoas não se referem ao câncer como “aquela doença”.

O estranho disso tudo é que não faz muito tempo, numa viagem à praia, minha mãe comprou tanto biquíni, mas tanto! Foi de se estranhar! Era Ano Novo! E na volta ela me contou. A mãe não queria estragar a festa. Lá estava mais um caroço. Ela comprou e comprou porque poderiam ser os últimos. A minha mãe teve medo, preocupação. A gente nunca quer perder e muito menos uma parte da gente. A mãe é uma das mulheres mais esclarecidas que eu conheço e lógico que sabe que existem próteses, mas mulheres, é uma parte da gente que pode ir embora e dá medo mesmo.

Graças a Deus não era nada sério. Mas como eu disse, eu não lembro de números, eu lembro de sensações e descobrir um câncer é no mínimo desesperador (já vivemos alguns na família). É estar a um passo do acabou, do nunca mais e infelizmente o nunca mais chega mesmo.

Sim, temos que prevenir, fazer exames, comer de forma saudável, fazer exercícios… E mesmo assim, a doença bate no peito e consome até as forças. Mas o único caminho é seguir em frente e quando tem alguém para segurar na nossa mão, aí o inexplicável acontece.

Eu tenho conhecidos que estavam a beira do casamento. A noiva descobriu que estava com câncer de mama, teve que tirar um seio e não sei por qual motivo teve que esperar uns meses para colocar uma prótese. E o noivo? Cadê ele nessa história? Estava lá do lado dela. Casamento marcado porque com ou sem um seio, ele estava lá, ele era o companheiro para uma vida. Família é isso, amor é isso!

Eu realmente quero que o câncer não faça passagem por aqui nem por aí, que a gente como mulher se cuide mais, é que às vezes a gente se esquece no caminho. E nós sabemos que mesmo seguindo a cartilha dos cuidados a doença aparece. Mas se ela chegar, que tenhamos mãos para nos segurar, Deus para nos proteger e coragem para enfrentar. Enquanto isso, que as campanhas, que os índices, que as histórias e que o nosso medo sirvam de alerta. Somos mulheres e precisamos de cuidado, o nosso cuidado.

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